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Hey friends, welcome back to the blog.  Today I wanted to talk about the topic of self-reflection.  With the changing season it is a good time to explore reflection.  Simply put, self-reflection (also known as “personal reflection”) is taking the time to think about, meditate on, evaluate, and give serious thought to your behaviors, thoughts, attitudes, motivations, and desires. It’s the process of diving deep into your thoughts, emotions and motivations. 

 Self-awareness and self-reflection are an important  topic in therapy.  For example in therapy we may spend time reflecting on an individual’s experiences and the circumstances that have led them to have current thoughts, desires, and belief systems.                   

Techniques for self-reflection may include journaling, meditation, talking to a trusted person, mindfulness to train you to observe your thought and feelings without judgement, structured questioning, or other creative outlets like art and music.                  

   Ways to Practice Self-Reflection

1. Make Time: Set aside regular, quiet time, even just 20 minutes a week, for reflection through one of the self-reflection methods. 
2. Create a Process: Experiment with different methods, such as journaling, meditation, taking a walk, or engaging in quiet contemplation to find what works best for you. 
3. Ask Questions: Prompt yourself with questions like: 
   • “What went well today?” 
   • “What did I learn from this experience?” 
   • “What would I like to improve?” 
   • “Why did I feel or act a certain way?” 
   • “What are my strengths and weaknesses?”

Self-reflection can be elevated by using it to connect to goals, values, and belief systems.  If you are unsure of what kind of goal you want to work on, what your values are, or what belief systems are serving you vs hindering you that may be a good place to start.  

Benefits of Self-Reflection

• Promotes Self-Awareness: You gain a better understanding of your true self, including your values, beliefs, and motivations. 
• Facilitates Personal Growth: By understanding your patterns, you can make positive changes and develop a more authentic version of yourself. 
• Improves Decision-Making: Gaining perspective helps you make choices that are aligned with your true needs and interests. 
• Enhances Response to Circumstances: You learn to respond to situations more effectively, leading to less regret and better outcomes. 
• Boosts Mental Health: Regular self-reflection can reduce anxiety and foster contentment. 
• Improves Learning: It provides opportunities to analyze your learning processes, draw upon information more effectively, and draw better conclusions.                   

 In conclusion, Self-reflection is important because it increases self-awareness, leading to better personal growth, improved decision-making, and greater emotional intelligence. By pausing to examine thoughts, emotions, and actions, you can identify strengths and weaknesses, align with core values, build resilience, and take ownership of your progress.        

Thanks for reading, until next time.

Emilie Barragan, LCSW 

Therapeuo Health – “Tackling physical and emotional pain”